Thursday, February 11, 2021

Bride Sends Wedding Guests 30-Day Diet Plans, Outrage Ensues


Weddings have an uncanny knack for bringing out the worst in people. Maybe it's because weddings are these momentous events that bring with them an insane amount of build up, nervous anticipation, and the reunion of various family members that should basically be kept as far apart from one another as possible. With that being said some folks just become possessed by this toxic sense of perfectionism where they're so committed to making sure that nothing goes wrong, that they end up creating a complete chaotic mess of stress in the process. In this case, we're dealing with a bride who has the unreal audacity to send all of her guests 30-day diet plans. That seems like a great strategy if you want to rest assured that you're going to have a ton of people not want to attend your wedding. People are already going out of their way to set up their own busy life schedules so that they can make an appearance for your special day, and then you hit 'em with an aggressive, totally unrealistic diet plan amidst that? So. Much. Yikes. This guy's reaction seems completely warranted when considering the circumstances. There are certain lines you just don't cross. While weddings seem like they can blur some of those lines, because people will put up with a certain amount of nonsense for the ones they love, this particular move by the bride is downright inexcusable. If anything, it sounds like she could massively benefit from being given a little reality check.

We're no strangers to seeing people being served up reality checks in other parts of life at this point. It could be a rude choosing beggar with a gnarly case of entitlement, who insists on wasting the time of an artist who is hard at work and just trying to survive off the funds they can make while practicing their craft. But alas, it seems that this world will never be in short supply of folks that fell through the cracks when it comes to practicing common social decency. They're blinded by a cloud of ignorance so thick that sometimes it's as if the reality checks themselves are pointless. You've got to wonder on some level whether or not this bride would even benefit from a reality check herself. It seems like she's opted for the defensive road based off the argument she already had with her brother. On top of that, the poor guy has to deal with what sounds like an enabling family and indifferent groom that aren't interested in helping him resolve the matter at all. Still have no idea what she was thinking when she sent one of those diet plans to her mother who is diabetic as well. Like, how is that even real life?

All in all, it's quick little tales like the one we're provided in this AITA post that can remind us that there are always going to be folks out there that are stooping to new lows for when it comes to being a morally righteous individual. We really do hope that they were able to figure out some kind of peaceful resolution.

1. And here we go. Buckle up for some juicy bridezilla drama.

Font - The past few weeks were filled with drama. My M33 sister's F36 wedding is in 2 months. Hosted at my mother's house. My sister's been stressing out about getting everything done on time making everyone around her stress out too. She sent me and my wife an invitation on Monday afternoon. My wife noticed something else was sent along with the invitation. She came to me and handed me the envelope and she looked so upset almost crying. I opened it and found that my sister sent a 30-day pre-wed

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Font - My sister basically wanted my wife (my wife's pregnant btw) to lose weight by following this diet so she could look "fit" at the wedding. Two things: 1. some of those 'meals' my wife is allergic to. And 2. My wife isn't even one of my sister's bridesmaids for Christ's Sake. I get that it's her special day or whatever and I get that my sister takes care of herself (literally can't help but look in every mirror she passes), but she's turning into a Bridezilla. My wife and I felt offended. S

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Font - Said that I shouldn't make this personal because everyone got a copy of this plan. Including her. But mom is diabetic so I don't know how that works. I reminded her that my wife i pregnant but she said I was making a big deal out of it causing drama and refusing to go with the flow. We argued for 30 min then I hung up. I've been sick (bedridden sick) for days but I had to get up on my feet to deal with...this. I spoke to her fiance to see what he thinks and he blatantly told me to keep hi

4. Folks got fired up in the comments section.

Rectangle - 22 Awards NTA. You could send your sister a 30 day pre-wedding personality repair plan. 18.1k •..

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Rectangle - Simmi1128 · 1d 1 Award 100% NTA. Your wife is pregnant like she should NOT being about her diet like wtf. No offense your sister is crazy for even sending out an diet plan to a pregnant woman. Plus she is not even in the wedding party so what your wife look is shouldn't even be a worry.

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Organism - NTA. To answer your question, yes – your family is insane. Your BIL may be the most insane of all. How could he have the prescience to know this shit is nuts, but still be willing to marry your sister? She's TA. What a nightmare. 145 ..

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Font - awkwardbutterball • 1d · Partassipant [1] NTA. I'm glad that you stood up for your wife. It's hard enough when you are pregnant to not compare yourself to a whale. At the first trimester. It deff gets worse. And to have someone tell her to go on a diet is a quick way to bring her confidence down. Your mom is either on your sister's side or doesn't want to deal with the drama and figured it would be easier to tell you to "let it go" versus telling her daughter that she sucks. 209 ...

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Font - gloompicnic · 1d · Partassipant [2] I cannot even process the narcissism that would allow you to believe that your wedding is such a privilege to attend that you're willing to go on a diet plan to be able to attend. Fact check: no one ever wants to go to a wedding. You're not that important. NTA. That is insane to ask of wedding guests. 343 ...

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Font - NTA. And just because your sister was horrendously offensive to everyone and didn't single your wife out - does not make it much better. Your sister does not seem to understand the meaning behind a wedding and a healthy marriage. It doesn't mean everyone needs to be size 4 and look 20. I am honestly sad for her because she sounds miserable and is absolutely going to have everyone she cares about sort of hate her. Your wife doesn't need to be subjected to your family's insanity. In fact, I

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Rectangle - badb-crow • 1d • Professor Emeritass [98] NTA. Trying to make other people go on diets - anyone, no just a pregnant woman - just to go to her wedding is ridiculous and controlling. If she really sent this shit to all her guests I imagine you won't be the only ones refusing to come, and she'll be lucky if she doesn't end up posted on the internet somewhere and mocked. 49 ...

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Organism - greenbastardette · 1d · Judge, Jury, and Excretioner [341] NTA- the sheer entitlement of trying to control the diets of everyone involved in the wedding. Feels like a sitcom bridezilla, but less likeable. You do not owe your sister control over your diet. No one does. Everyone enabling her has created a monster. 35 ...

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Rectangle - crazybookgal • 1d NTA!!! Wow. Your sister was 100% in the wrong here. 20 ...

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Rectangle - NTA - I can't help but wonder how long her marriage will last 14 •..

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Font - NTA 100%. There was me thinking that sis had done that by accident. But even if she sent that to her bridesmaids, she is 100% a bridezilla. All she should be worrying about is that everyone is happy, healthy, and has a fun time. She's waaaay too focused on the wedding, and not the marriage. From what the fiance said, this may not be a marriage made in heaven! 26 ...

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Rectangle - Puggy_ • 1d The fiancé doesn't want to be involved, speaks about not being allowed to visit his dad in the hospital and is kept busy with this wedding? Uhh... I have questions for the fiancé. Anyway, NTA. Many times NTA. What a bridezilla. 3 3 ...

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Facial expression - Orginal TaraFromSpace · 1d NTA. Your sister is power tripping on things that are not her business. Go you for standing up for your lady. 10 3 ...

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Rectangle - piggyequalsbacon • 1d NTA - I would send back a pic of me eating pizza. 3 3 ...

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Rectangle - BabyBunnyOfDoom · 20h NTA she is acting like a major bridezilla with her disregard for other the health of others and from the sounds of it your sisters fiancé seriously needs to consider if he wants to marry her or not. She doesn't let him visit his dad in the hospital? Seriously? Vote ...

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Rectangle - procrastinating4ev • 20h NTA, I wouldn't bother going to the wedding either, they wont last long anyway seeing as how she treats her fiancé. + Vote ...

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