Saturday, June 6, 2020

Things That Dissolved People's Interest In Their Crushes


Someone on AskReddit got a fun thread going about the things that just killed their interest in a crush. Sometimes we dream someone up to be a certain way, and they end up acting in another way that completely dissolves that prior lust. Lust is a strange beast, indeed. 

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Text - ciggybuttbrain666 •6h I noticed he was an attention seeker, I heard the same cool stories he told me when I first met him that drew me in again and again and realised he was egotistical. Basically if you say you've climbed a mountain he would interrupt to say he's climbed a bigger one that was more dangerous.

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Text - chevy1500 • 6h She littered , It was supposed to be a nice walk in the park , we got subway and she threw the wrapper and napkins in a garden. I picked it up and threw it out myself after she called me weird and walked away.

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Text - alotteofchar •6h He told me that he wanted me to sleep with other people and telI him about it. And that he stood on the edge of a bridge all night long debating on jumping because he didn't think he could make me happy enough.

4.

Text - DragonairBNB• 7h Finding out she had a boyfriend and a dude on the side

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Text - hernia1713 • 7h We got into an argument during my freshman year while we were in the "talking phase" and then she screamed at me in the hallway

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Text - glitteronthetrails • 6h 1 Award He asked to borrow my hardback of Harry Potter and The Prisoner of Azkaban. That was my favorite of the series and I happily lended it to him....six months later he finally returned it. The dust jacket was torn, the corners were dented and the spine was broken. That book had been in pristine condition and I nearly cried that he took such little care of it. My 6th grade nether- regions were turned to dust. Screw you, Trevor, you book-ruining barbarian.

7.

White - articlance • 7h Played hard to get

8.

Text - tod22 • 6h Just as things were picking up, she started showing maniacal signs - crazy controlling with terrible mood swings.

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Text - awww_shit45 •6h I got a promotion at work, he got butthurt and then stabbed me in the back. He was given a part of the promotion thatI was given, not even half of the responsibilities. When I realized that he was a weasel but also not GOOD at being a weasel he wasn't sexy anymore.

10.

Text - homojayspliffson • 6h I found her on tinder while her fiance was deployed in the navy

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Text - Back2Bach • 7h Beautiful to look at, but boring to know.

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Text - casino_night • 6h I realized she was mean. About 4 years ago, I moved in next door to a beautiful woman. She was fun and we got along great. We started doing activities together. We hiked, we worked out, we watched movies. Then one day, we went to a fast food drive thru and she completely berated the workers for no good reason. I was mortified. Then as we were driving away she said "They're the stupidest people. They never listen." Then I said "You know they probably spit in your food, ri

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Text - Serapha_707 • 6h Weird one here I loved this girl from school, she wasn't the prettiest but she was really nice to me and complimented my makeup and stuff and I was really happy... Then she said she thought an abortion would taste nice Edit: okay apparently I need more context but l'm not too sure how to give it? Like I knew something was wrong with her, she has scissors in her blazer pocket and tbh if I put her next to a USSR flag she'd be the bigger red flag but like, after school I was

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Text - DEAR7340 • 6h Table manners: you might spend years, across the table, from someone chewing - - like the sounds of someone marching through mud.

15.

Text - BigMilko • 6h Bad money management. Not into someone who'll eventually expect me to help them pay off several credit cards.

16.

Text - youbeenrobbedchief • 5h I found out the way he treated the MULTIPLE women he was talking to. He would dog on and make fun of them to impress the other to imply that he wasn't interested and they were the only one he was talking to.

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Text - Growlin_T • 6h In seventh grade, I brought her a slice of cheesecake at lunch for Valentine's Day and she laughed at me in front of her friends and wouldn't even take it. I was socially awkward at the time but damn, that fucked me up

18.

Text - somduttamazumder • 6h He told me on the first date, you have such a witty sense of humour!....for a girl

19.

Text - kwack250 • 6h She was a bad parent to her kids.

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Text - nannylittle • 5h After getting to know him a little bit I found out he wanted a modern version of a 1950s housewife. We got on the topic of kids for whatever reason. He said he excepted his future wife to do all the childcare, and all the housework, and all the cooking.

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Text - Herzogsteve • 6h I was on a date with a girl. We were taking a little walk. The weather was quite cold so she was wearing a big coat. She took her hands out of her pockets. He hands were full of tissues, scraps of paper, candy wrappers, and she just dumped it all on the floor. We were a couple of metres away from a bin. I pretty much went straight home.

22.

Text - CharlesHolmes1998 • 6h Declaring my interest for him. I simply told to my crush (my best friend at the time, we were 14-15) that I had feelings for him: he is straight but received that quite well, of course saying that the feelings weren't mutual. It really didn't effect the friendship to be honest, simply telling him kinda made me get over that.

23.

Text - Aerrianna • 6h Met him in college, thought he was funny and cute so I invited him out for drinks. All he'd talk about were his drunken escapades. Which are fine to have, but have some other interests too. We're still friends and I still kind of like him, but the crush went way down after that.

24.

Text - Limeyhi • 6h Yelled at me for accidentally dumping soup on him when he was crowded way too close behind me in the lunch line and I turned around. First and last crush, have never felt one since. Like my brain decided at 11 this shit isn't worth it and turned that part off.

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Text - championdwyer • 6h Had a crush on a dude my freshman year of college but he had a girlfriend in high school. However, he continuously flirted with me all the time and I just went with it. Then one day his girlfriend came to visit and she wrote "whore" on my white board on my door...still have no idea what the hell this guy told his girlfriend about me so ignored him after that.

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Text - TheDood715• 7h 1 Award She took a cat she had adopted and allowed it to run away because it had become noisy at night. I knew she allowed him to run away because a day later he came back smelling of the outside and meowing at her door. I took him in, washed him in the bathroom, and she kept sarcastically saying "That's your cat now!". Yea, he is, and I still have him and he's still annoying and loud but I love him anyway. It's the ugliest sort of person who selfishly adopts a cat while de

27.

Text - HikariDaWeeb • 7h When he and his friend told a 5-year old to jump off a cliff. That was fucked up.

28.

Text - quarterslicecomics • 6h She was shitting on a student who was very clearly mentally handicapped. He was a really hard worker and was quite nice. We were already all 21 and I was honestly very appalled.

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Text - Sckaledoom • 6h To some extent, it's usually just because I realize I don't have a chance in Hell. There was the one time a girl I had a crush on who had no intention of reciprocating took massive advantage of it and me. After I realized I had no chance, I just kinda said "fuck it".

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