Wednesday, December 30, 2020

Dad Of Girl Wants To Ask Doc How To Increase Chances Of Having Boy


Man, some people need swift reality checks more than others. This dad came out of left field with his whole bit about wanting a baby boy instead of a baby girl. Even if that were the case for whatever reason, that's definitely something that you keep to yourself and ultimately (hopefully) inwardly reflect on, and proactively work to change that mindset. Naturally, the folks of Reddit's AITA community were relentless with their disapproving remarks about this dad's decision. Maybe it all served as the wakeup call that he sorely needed. 

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Text - AITA for asking the doctor how to increase chances of having a boy next time? Asshole Found out today at the ultrasound that my wife is pregnant with twin girls. I wasn't mad, but I was let down because we already have two daughters and I said, "C'mon!" It was an accident. I only meant to say it in my head but I guess I was so frustrated it came out my mouth and I said it out loud. But it was fine because everybody laughed. I asked the doctor how I could increase the chances of having a b

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Text - Everybody was happy and laughing. Everything was fine. Soon as we get into the car my wife turns into a whole different person and stops smiling and being happy. I can't remember her exact words but I knew she was upset about the question I asked. I told her that I love our daughters but I just wanted a boy and that there was nothing wrong with that. She hasn't spoken to me in a few hours. I don't really see what the problem is. I don't want too many replies, please. Just like 10. If you

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Blue - LoganDeLuca2004 · 17h · Pooperintendant [60] YTA. Also, expect to get way more than 10 comments because posts on this sub blow up fast. O Q Reply 4 2.5k UnihornWhale • 11h · Partassipant [4] Especially when the answer is so obvious 376 ...

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Text - MissJew • 17h • Asshole Enthusiast [5] 3 1 Award YTA I wasn't going to reply because it's so obvious that YTA but then I got to the end of your post demanding a comment cap and just had to break your "rules". Showing outward displeasure at the sex of your new babies is proof positive that you do not actually value your daughters. Reply 1 1.5k ...

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Text - SnakesCantWearPants • 17h • Asshole Aficionado [12] 5 Awards YTA. You wife is pregnant with twins, and what you chose to do rather than be supportive was whine about what kind of genitals the human beings she's growing have and then ask the doctor not about her health or the health of your children or the risks associated with carrying twins, but how to make sure she grows the right kind of baby to please you once these pesky daughters get out and you get her pregnant again. Wanting a boy

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Text - HIOP-Sartre · 17h · Partassipant [4] 3 2 Awards ΥΤΑ. Not only do you want to control the sex of your baby, but you also want to control the number of replies on an open & free platform. Do you have a preference as to what time you want the sun to rise tomorrow? Nothing wrong with wanting a boy. But how frustrated you get when something you can't control goes the other way is not cool. Reply 5.1k 3 ...

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Text - Obiterdicta · 17h · Pooperintendant [50] 2 Awards YTA. Gender disappointment is very real, and I'm not going to shame you for your feelings. But essentially asking the doctor how to "fix" the issue, especially in front of your wife in what's supposed to be this happy moment, is inappropriate. # Q Reply 4 6.3k 3 ... +

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Text - 1 Award YTA and as a girl who's dad often spoke about how much he wanted a son please try to avoid making those kind of comments around your daughters. Congratulations on the twins Reply 1.5k ...

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Text - CakeisaDie • 17h • Supreme Court Just-ass [127] YTA lol asking for not too many comments. My father did the same thing as you which is why my mother didn't get me sexed when I was in her womb (I was an accident) He was a TA, and you are a TA. QReply 1 5.9k +

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Text - CynfulPrincess • 17h · Asshole Enthusiast [6] YTA. It's the sperm that decides the gender so talk to your own shit, not her. Also, idk. Maybe just don't embarrass your wife in public that way. Or about something she has ZERO control over. Try being grateful for healthy kids. It's okay to want one or the other, but asking like that was not okay. # Q Reply 4 1.0k ...

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Text - littleOreo95 · 17h · Partassipant [1] YTA. Your wife has every right to be upset. You are going to have twins, lots of bad things can happend in a pregnancy and all you care about is not having a son?!?!? Really?!?!? PD: if you really talked to mods, they did nothing, I can still reply. E Q Reply 4 245 ...

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Text - Traditional_Photo214 · 17h · Partassipant [1] Yta. You have made it known that the children your wife IS CURRENTLY CARRYING and the existing oneS are not good enough for you. Reply 507 ...

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Text - sheramom4 · 17h • Colo-rectal Surgeon [32] ΥΤΑ. Just stop having children. Your response was gross. Asking your wife's doctor at all, let alone at your wife's appointment was gross. And demanding how many comments you get is ridiculous. Reply 897

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Text - Facepalmawall · 17h · Asshole Aficionado [13] YTA. Way to show how you feel about your daughters. My recommendation to your wife. Don't have another kid with this twit. If you want more kids, find them a better dad. Reply 644 3 ...

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Text - arizonakarenina • 17h • Partassipant [3] 3 4 Awards YTA. Your reaction and your question apparently demonstrated two things to your wife: 1. You value daughters less, because having more daughters is a disappointment enough that would already be planning for "next time." 2. You view your wife as an incubator for "next time." Is she to have any say on whether there is a "next time"? This spontaneous "joke" on your part likely contains a grain of truth, and your wife perceives this. You hur

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Text - Dommymommy61 • 17h • Partassipant [1] YTA. Your wife was probably embarrassed when you made the first comment and then you doubled down. They can sort the embryos if you want to pay for an artificial insemination but not the time or place. Q Reply 129 •..

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Text - KatEyes1990 ·• 17h YTA I'll just add to all the other comments that l'm glad you're not having a boy... mostly because if you have one in the future it's going to be "you favourite " which will suck very much to your daughters. Saying this shit you basically made differences between your kids, and showing preferences... like having a boy will be BETTER than having the girls your wife is currently pregnant with. ALSO ASKING RIGHT AWAY ABOUT HOW TO GET A BOY. Such a face guy. It's like sayi

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Text - LittleMtnMama • 17h • Partassipant [1] 23 Awards YTA. While it's ok to FEEL gender disappoiment, you keep your mouth shut around the mother of the two girls not yet even born. Talk to a goddamn therapist instead Also YTA for buying into gender bullshit too hard. Who is to say, she has a boy who is the most effeminate kid you have. Who is to say one of your girls won't be a "tomboy." You can do whatever the fuck it is you wanted to do with a boy, with your girls. So while it's ok to feel y

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Text - 3FoolsinaTrenchcoat • 17h YTA. You're entitled to feel disappointed, you are not entitled to bother a woman very pregnant with frickin twins in public about it! Sometimes we can't have what we want in life, we're allowed to be sad but that doesn't give us the right to act inappropriately. Also last I checked, your wife's a person not a breeding sow; if you want more kid, you have to talk about it like it's a joint decision not 'we're gonna have to do this next time' like she doesn't get a

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Text - brokeanail • 17h • Partassipant [1] YTA. Girls aren't good enough for you, and you made sure your pregnant wife knows it. And you wonder why she's mad! Reply 193 •..

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Text - NebbiePolaris • 17h · Partassipant [2] YTA Someone needs to go back to high school biology. O Reply 4 252 ...

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