Monday, September 21, 2020

Dad Leaves Delivery Room Cause Fiancée Shouts Ex's Name


Man, oh man, it sounds like this uncomfortable situation is the manifestation of the guy's fiancée clearly not being over her ex. Maybe they rushed into things as well, in terms of having a baby after dating for eight months. That being said, the folks in the comments section seem to be in collective agreement that this new dad wasn't in the wrong for his decision to leave the delivery room. 

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Text - AITA For walking out of the delivery room while my fiancé was giving birth? Not the A-hole This happened two weeks ago, my 28M fianće 26F and I just had a baby boy and it's been difficult already without her being upset with me after what happened. I met her at a bar I used to hang out with my friends at, we dated for 8 months, and I decided to propose when she told me she was pregnant and wanted to have the baby, we both agreed on getting married after our baby is born, She was introduce

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Text - I learned that she was engaged to her late fiancé for 4 years but he got sick and passed away at a young age, She told me she had recurrent dreams about him, I wasn't upset because no one controls what they see in their dreams, but sometimes she mumbles his name and visits his grave on his birthdays and still keeps their rings in our house. When she went into labor, I drove to the hospital to be with her since she expressed to me how terrified she was after talking to her group of moms wh

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Text - Her labor lasted longer than expected, her mom arrived when she was taken to the delivery room, she was feeling so much stress and even cried which made it more difficult, I tried to reassure her and told her to think about are baby and just focus on that, She suddenly started screaming, first she yelled her deceased dad's name, then let go of my hand and started yelling out her deceased fiancé's name and just continued to yell that name at the top of her lungs, I was shocked I didn't kno

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Text - She gave birth and her mom walked up to me to give me the news, I was happy my son was finally born, I went in to see them both for a short time before he was taken. My fiancé returned home and started berating me for walking out on her like that and told me that what I did was unacceptable, I told her why but she completely avoided this and tried to say That it didn't matter and that I was being ridiculous while she was feeling pain, we argued about it and she brought up that she called

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Text - AndrenNoraem • 22h You know, I was ready to say E-S-H until I read she called out the names of the two most important people in her life Solidly NTA. If not for the baby l'd be saying you should tell her to fuck herself. Because there is a baby, you guys need couples counseling and she needs individual. Rough situation, man. I hope it gets better. Reply 2.8k ...

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Text - gobsmacked247 • 23h • Colo-rectal Surgeon [47] 8 Awards Your. Fiance. Is. So. Wrong. She's projecting some serious guilt onto you and do not take that crap. She has the unmitigated gall to be upset at you and has taken no responsibility for what she did/said. OP, you need to slow your roll on the wedding. Your fiance is not over her ex. At best you are a place holder. At worst, a sperm donor. You had no way of knowing before the delivery date that she was this damaged. You know now. Tread

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Text - Flux32 • 23h • Asshole Enthusiast [8] 4 Awards we argued about it and she brought up that she called out the names of the two most important people in her life then went into the bedroom leaving me feeling awful and guilty Wait, so her deceased fiance is more important in her life than you, her current fiance? Am I misunderstanding this? NTA. Reply 1 11.7k ...

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Text - TallahasseeSix • 23h • Asshole Aficionado [13] 1 Award NTA. If it had seemed like she still wanted you there then Y W B T A for walking out no matter how distressed or irrational she was. But at the point she is screaming her ex's name over and over it genuinely seems like she didn't want you there or that your presence was upsetting her. You did the right thing to step out. What she threw in your face about him and her dad being the two most important people in her life was also incredib

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Text - Jeremy_Crowhurst • 23h • Asshole Enthusiast [7] NTA. Close call on walking out of the delivery room, but I'm with you. It's an overwhelming feeling, under the circumstances it's understandable that were pushed over the limit. As for everything else, I'm getting a really, really bad feeling about this relationship. The fact that she is trying to exercise this much control at this point in the relationship. It's possible that you are being taken for a ride here. I think you should speak to

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Text - NTA but you guys seriously need to not get married... She clearly is still grieving her late fiance, which is completely understandable (though the way she spoke to you about it was not appropriate or kind), and I don't get the sense from your post that you actually want to marry her at all, or even love her for that matter. That's ok. You're not a bad person for not being in love with or wanting to marry the girlfriend you happened to knock up early on in the relationship. And it's ok fo

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Text - loCAtek • 22h NTA - I know a lot of women scream some crazy shit while giving birth (One of the most common is, 'YOU did this to me!') but your gf's obsession with her ex isn't This wasn't an isolated incident, but before, during and after the labor, she keeps talking about the ex, and displaying momentos. There's more issues new. involved here. Was she expressing any interest in marriage, before she got pregnant? some counseling on this spector over your relationship, before you get marr

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Text - daiceedoll • 22h • Colo-rectal Surgeon [45] NTA It's rough competing with a ghost. When a partner dies, you forget about all the things they did that annoyed you, and focus on everything that was great about them. People who are here, living and breathing have faults and are imperfect. There's no comparison. You have a child together, so some couple's therapy is in order. It would probably be helpful for the two of you to talk this out. And it is in your child's best interest if this rela

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Text - livdro650 • 23h NTA - it doesn't sound like you were being petty, but we're genuinely confused. Reply 155 ...

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Text - Eshiah88 • 21h NTA Please don't marry her. Im sure you're trying to do the "right thing" but it's already doomed. She doesn't love you and clearly hasn't healed from losing her former fiance. You can still be a good father without marrying her. You'll probably be a better dad by not getting married to her. Reply 59 ...

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Text - jjswin • 23h • Asshole Aficionado [12] NTA. You can't help how that made you feel, and it clearly had an effect on you because you were shaking. You're both probably having a very stressful time right now, with a new baby, so try and forgive her, give her some time and see how things go. Reply 263 ...

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Text - B-Girl-Ca • 21h NTA but you really need to consider what she said, she is being very clear to you on where you stand in her mind and heart, I know you now have a baby with her but this sound like red flags everywhere Reply 23 ...

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Text - Froggetpwagain • 21h NTA. Oh man, you two are going to have to have some therapy for this! Seriously, you didn't do anything wrong, I don't know what else she expected you to do! I understand she was in pain and crazy things happen, but she SHOULD be mortified! I do t think she's gotten over his death, and this whole process has dredged you some feels Reply 16 ...

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Text - adambrashear • 21h NTA; Yeah I don't know how to tell you this but your fiancé is definitely not over her ex. Your a better person than me. Because the moment she said that line about the 2 most important people in her life I would have ended everything right then and there. Hell notice how she didn't even mention your newborn child either. Apparently you don't matter enough your just a placeholder/sperm donor, I would told her the engagement is off and have packed a bag. Told her she can

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