Saturday, June 20, 2020

Women Who Dated Toxic "Nice Guys"


"Nice Guys" are a kind of manipulative dude, claiming to be chivalrous, but then demanding sex and attention that they feel like they're owed. It can be a weird combination of creepiness and entitlement. Toxic behavior is toxic behavior, like this woman who bombarded a guy's phone with a storm of texts.

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Text - AndThenThereIsJess 10.1k points · 1 day ago I finally allowed him to take me on a date to breakfast. Figured midday would be ideal to meet up in public. I offended him immediately when I spoke to the waitress. I said, "We have two" when she asked how many we had. He insisted that she was asking him, not me, and I emasculated him in public. I laughed it off as a joke. I grew up with all brothers. Surely, he was trying to be funny. We sat down. The waitress asked for our order. I gave her m

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Text - 100_night_sky_ 11.2k points · 2 days ago · edited 1 day ago I was once in a similar situation. I dated a sweet guy. But honestly, "sweet" is subjective. He was a gentleman, but he INSISTED on ALWAYS opening the car door for me (he literally would not let me touch the car handle, like at all), letting me eat first ALWAYS (instead of both at the same time cause honestly it's not a biggie for me), commented that I should never cut my hair, etc... I felt like I was with a man from the 50s. It

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Text - milkeymikey 6.6k points · 1 day ago A girlfriend told me that when she was still new to dating, she gave a nice guy a shot. They were in different states and after weeks of "owing him" a sexy picture or video she agreed to FaceTime him with a wink wink agreement that things might get steamy. The day comes and this 300lb unwashed dude called her (190lb, 5'6) "nice, but bigger than he liked" and suggested she start working out. He then pushed for an in-person visit near him so that he could

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Text - ApricityAmends 29.0k points · 2 days ago · edited 1 day ago Yes. It worked out that he also felt entitled to other things and felt like "no" wasn't an acceptable answer for things like sex when he “did so much for me."

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Text - Isaac_The_Khajiit 23.0k points · 2 days ago My sister did... She is a hairstylist and one of her clients was very aggressive about asking her out. He repeatedly bought flowers, concert tickets, and other gifts which he brought to her at work, and she said no each time because he seemed a little off. He got in a car accident and was really badly injured, and she felt sorry for him so she went out with him finally. They dated a few months before breaking up, I don't know the exact reason wh

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Text - Lrad5007 18.5k points · 1 day ago · edited 1 day ago Yes. The tantrums continued throughout the relationship. He was very controlling. If I was out with friends he would be upset that I was having fun without him. He ended up cheating on me and dumping me only to beg me back. He semi staked me for a couple of years. Had an online blog about what I did each day and tried to befriend my exes

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Text - ChibiSailorMercury 18.2k points · 2 days ago S It was my first experience on OkCupid. The guy seemed ok on paper, we swapped non nude pictures so none of us would be surprised with the way we looked. We talked on Skype for 2 weeks because at the time I was in campus town and scrolling OkCupid for my hometown. I told him I would be back home after finals and that it would take 2-3 weeks before we could meet in person. It was good to talk to someone who wasn't outright trying to sexualize/f

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Text - Anyway, so we meet. I got dressed up and he was in t- shirt and cargo pants. I bought us both a latte (it was a coffee date). We sat down, and he talked mostly about himself and his job. At some point, he stood up, walked behind me, and started giving me a shoulder rub, while I was seated. I never asked for a massage and why would I accept one in public? I got bored, so I pretexted a family supper to leave and he was like "Uh, too bad, I could have had brought you home" and I thought "I t

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Text - ynextdoorneighbor 11.8k points · 2 days ago Yes I did once, and I wish I didn't. He wasn't a nice guy after all. He treated me like I was the ugly one, I never felt more shitty in my whole life than when I was with him. I should have known

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Text - WackyNephews 8.3k points · 1 day ago a I was the 'nice guy' who got turned down for a second date. I said the same bullshit that any 'nice guy' says when that happens, ie) all women are the same, say they want nice guys, only date assholes, etc. She said 'Well, fine, let's have that second date but doesn't it make you feel weird to have to convince someone to date you? Don't you want someone who wants to be with you?' Me: .. Changed absolutely everything about dating for me.

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Text - Akagikin 10.5k points · 1 day ago · edited 1 day ago I didn't, but my friend did. See, me and This Guy had a Mutual Friend. This Guy saw himself as a white knight and would use that term to describe himself. He had a code of honour, and he was always somebody who'd walk the girl home, lend out his jacket, that sort of thing. Well, Mutual Friend was asked out by This Guy, and he threw a fit when she turned him down. So, she gave him a chance. At first, she was happy. He pulled out chairs,

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Text - MinMaxMarissa 9.3k points · 2 days ago Way too many times in college. I had guys in the "friend zone" who I decided to give a chance because I was stupid and I felt sorry for them I last straw was when a guy took me shopping. I said "yes" in lonely desperation on a Friday night, this was a Saturday afternoon. After every store I went into he would either criticize me for not wanting him to buy me anything (I'm not much of a shopper anyways) or ask me for sex because he bought me a used vi

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Text - lasha890 9.5k points · 1 day ago S Met a guy online and he seemed really nice. He was a tad pushy about meeting up but I ignored that little feeling. We met up shortly after for a quick date (I think we got coffee) and chatted. It was instant chemistry, he had 2 sons and i have 2 kids, both open to blended families, goal oriented, smart, easy conversation. We decided to go out again the next night, really nice date and he was a complete gentleman. He mentioned on the date we'd have to get

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