There's a common misconception that love is about finding someone who is completely perfect. The problem with that is that no one is perfect. If someone out there is, good luck setting up your tent at the back of that extremely long line to talk to them. For almost all of us, a working relationship is about accepting a person's flaws within reason. Like, think twice before letting someone with terrifying anger issues and crippling debt into your life. But if someone is otherwise really great and also crosses their legs weird, you might come to the realization that you will simply have to tolerate this person's stupid way of sitting.
So don't feel bad if there's something your spouse does that you kind of hate. As it turns out, everyone has a few things that they are willing to tolerate in an otherwise good relationship. But please. If you call it a hamburder, stop calling it a hamburder. You're embarrassing yourself and everyone around you.
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