Friday, February 26, 2021

Basic Skills People Are Completely Terrible At


You've got to love an AskReddit thread that pays homage to those basic skills that people are for whatever reason, plain old terrible at. It's funny how life works out like that. Sometimes, we just end up falling through the cracks when it comes to picking up tidbits of common knowledge that we should really have known in the first place. Some people's brains just operate at a different frequency, where they might have no idea how to write in a legible manner, no matter how hard they tried and were pushed to do so throughout their schooling. It ain't nothing to be ashamed of. Or, perhaps you're someone who has an impossibly hard time maintaining the flow of a conversation on the phone.

I mean, now more than ever we're so dang conditioned to communicate through texts, Snapchats, memes, etc. that when it actually comes time to formulate some words, and comprehensible sentences in a dialogue, your mind can end up going helplessly blank. Or, maybe you're one of those people who can't whistle to save your life. Whistling's hard, and shout out to the people in this world that can manage to whistle a tune. While others, can't even get the thing going in the first place.

An AskReddit thread like this can serve as a powerful, humbling, if not inviting reminder that you're not alone in your pursuit toward picking up those life skills and knowledge that you know you should probably know, but just can't quite seem to get. Maybe you have friends and family that have lovingly tried to help you put the pieces together along the way. Hopefully, not the opposite, where you're faced with fielding banter and roasts from people that love to make a mockery of you not quite being able to get there.

The overriding point is that patience is key, and above all else, who really cares at the end of the day if you can't whistle or write out a letter/card that other people will be able to read? The truth is, nobody really cares. Maybe for a hot second they'll get hung up on it, have a good laugh, and give you a nice old fashioned hard time. But then, then you move onward, and maybe you find in yourself a newfound desire to take the time to actually master the very thing that up until this point has escaped your attention. That can certainly be a proactive, productive way to lead a life. The very things that can initially give us the most trouble, can somehow evolve to be our special skills later on down the road. It's like, life loves to test you, throw you off your rhythm for a sec, and ultimately see whether or not you're going to accept the challenge. Challenges can be fun. There's always a nice little dopamine rush waiting at the end of mastering that thing that gave you so much trouble at the onset. So, maybe this thread will give you new inspiration, or at the very least, it'll make you feel better about those skills you're currently lacking.

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Rectangle - albinorhino63•6h 2 Awards Handwriting G Reply 1 343 ...

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Font - I have a super rough time telling left from right. I mean yes I know that they're two different directions, but my brain saved them as "this way" and "that way" basically. So if I'm driving and someone says "it's on your left" I have to quietly lift my thumbs to see which one makes the little L so I know which direction I'm supposed to go because just saying "left" is meaningless to me. G Reply 1 71 3 ...

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Font - greyhoundpie · 6h I'm a carpenter. I can build a house but I genuinely struggle folding clothes. G Reply 1 40 ...

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Font - HotlolFudge · 6h Can't even ride a bicycle. G Reply 53 •..

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Rectangle - Never_Ending_Sorrow • 5h I CAN'T SWIM G Reply 32 •..

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Font - HawkEyez_RuUuL • 6h Math. Like even the easy stuff. I have dyscalculia and thats like dyslexia but with numbers (not really, but easiest way to explain it). Basically every math I ever learned: Teacher: So you take this number ok? Ме: Ok Teacher: Then you take this number ok? Ме: Ok Teacher: Then you do this with them My Brain: Nope G Reply 59 ...

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Font - brokendowndryer • 6h 1 Award Starting a conversation. I can easily talk to you if you talk to me first and I can talk to you all day if we have something in common. But to actually go up to someone and say "hi"? I just can't do it. G Reply 107 3 ...

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Font - lynchy016 · 5h Reading aloud, can read just fine but when i have to say it out loud there is almost a lag from my eyes to my mouth G Reply 1 26 3 ...

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Rectangle - rafael-a · 6h Socializing GReply 136 •..

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Font - WatchTheBoom · 6h Remembering to drink enough water. G Reply 20 ...

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Rectangle - obstracized • 4h Using chopsticks. Reply •.. +B

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Font - GoalOk7052•3h Gaming, I am just terribly bad at games G Reply 10 + ...

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Font - erinscalc90 • 3h telling time on an analog clock. it takes me way too long. G Reply ...

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Font - Jolkien-RR-Tolkien • 5h Walking G Reply 4 3

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Font - Avatar4Nations · 4h I can't flip anything. A grilled sandwich, pancakes, eggs. Ugh G Reply 4 3 ...

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Font - ConfusedandKindaCute • 6h Cooking G Reply 1 41 ...

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Font - GreenMoonRising · 6h Tidying and organisation. And cleaning. And money management. And holding down a job. ADHD has a lot to answer for... G Reply 1 15 3 ...

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Font - clpesarchick440 ·4h I'm terrible at reading. I could blame it on focus, but l've never practiced the right habits to be better. 6 Reply ...

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Font - I have absolutely no sense of direction. I mean like comically bad. I can leave the street I live on, make a few turns and I may as well be in France (for context, in British and have never been to France). I'm both dyslexic and dyspraxic, which are both loosely related to shitty short term memory. It basically mean that wherever I am l've got no idea where it is or how I got there unless l've been enough times to commit it to long term memory. I also can't spell and as soon as anything l

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Font - pettyoffset · 2h Drinking liquids from a cup. I'm a fifty fifty, but I usually end up wearing some of it, or coughing it up. G Reply 1 Vote ...

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Rectangle - TheOwnerOfRaddit • 2h Any type of coordinated body movements, such as dancing, although even simpler tasks can be difficult - like hand motions. I have to watch multiple times and attempt for hours to do something as simple as basic patty cake. G Reply Vote ...

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Font - DoodlebugRocket · 2h Snapping, not really a skill but I just can't snap my fingers. 5 Reply 1 Vote 3 ...

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Font - brunette_pawg • 3h Eating and drinking. No matter how careful I am I always spill everything all down myself, someone once tapped me in a lecture to tell me I had ketchup on the back of my head matted into my hair. l'd eaten a hotdog like an hour earlier and somehow got ketchup onto the back of my head? G Reply 4 2 ...

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Product - Smile_In_The_Rain • 5h Handwriting. My handwriting is atrocious, constantly changes and my hand cramps after a few words. G Reply 4 14 3 •..

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